How do you want to feel sexually?
Contemplate how you want your sexual self to feel. Write an abundance of words down, then try them on and see which five fit the best. For instance, if seductive is one of your words, repeat "I am seductive" to yourself a few times. Or perhaps, "I feel relaxed" is more your style. Which words resonate with you both on the surface and on a deeper level. The other thing to consider is how YOU want to feel, and not how someone else wants you to feel. It can help to take a break too and add to the list throughout your day, then sort through what you've come up with. This process can also take a few days too. Don't rush yourself. Say the words, write the words, feel the words to decipher whether they're a precisely how you'd like to feel. If five is too many, or not enough, use however many you see fit!
We'll build on this tomorrow. Feel free to DM me with your experiences or any questions you have. Enjoy!