Pleasure yourself in a new position. We are undeniably creatures of habit, in some ways that helps us and in others it hinders. Self pleasuring, aka masturbation, in the same position can limit our abilities to experience pleasure and orgasm in other positions. By exploring erotic pleasure in new body shapes on our own, we are more likely to adopt different positions with our partners.
Positions to try:
- hands and knees
- squatting, perhaps with a hand on the wall or back against the wall for support
- one leg on the something
- lying with one leg off the bed, couch, chair
While you certainly may orgasm in the new shapes you explore, it is by no means necessary. The goal is pleasure and to experience pleasure in new positions. Allot a certain amount of time to self stimulate before you shift into your regular spot and don't be hard on yourself. You've probably been spending a fair amount of time in this shape over that last several years, so flirt with the idea of new and novel positions! Change doesn't happen over night.
Feel free to DM me with your experiences or any questions you have. Enjoy!