Death, assholes and Sex. The path to liberation?

When you heal your relationship to these three things, you are free.

When you face the fear of death, your own and other people's, you rip out the root of all suffering, which is attachment.

When you heal the shame around your asshole, your body opens to the earth's shamanic energy and ecstatic current.

When you heal your relationship with sexuality and excavate society's judgement and stigma, your life force, which is your erotic energy, can flow freely.


How to Heal your Relationship with Death

  1. Meditate on it.

  2. Talk about it.

  3. Say the fucking words - death, dead (stop sugar coating it)

  4. Sit and look at something or someone that is dead.

  5. Bear witness to death.

  6. Surrender to the grief and move into the pain.

  7. Practice different ways of releasing attachments to people and things.


How to Heal your Relationship to you Asshole

  1. Introduce yourself to it.

  2. Make love to it. Play with it. Massage it. Penetrate it.

  3. Fart around people.

  4. Shit in front of someone, or at the very least stop trying to hide that fact that you shit.

  5. Let other people make love to it.


How to Heal your Relationship with Sex

  1. Ditch judgement in exchange for curiosity for yourself and others.

  2. Do it more, in different ways.

  3. Connect with your body, including all the parts you've deemed unlovable.

  4. Talk about it.

  5. Breakout of your habits, whatever they are.

  6. If you're with a partner who's closed off and judgmental, show them how their judgement of you makes you feel and stay curious together.

  7. Don't take yourself too seriously.


Coaching Sessions, Embodiment Sessions and upcoming workshops can help guide your relationship with death, your asshole and sexuality. Words can't describe how liberating and valuable it is to heal these connections. Get in touch with me to see what sessions are best for you.

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